Distance Love – Family & PeopleReport
Okay, so I’m in love with this girl who sadly lives far away, in the same country-wise, but far none the less. I went to my first school with her and we even got together for a couple years until I moved. Anyway we’ve started talking again over Skype, and she keeps saying how she misses me, and it’s driving me crazy how I can’t see her. She doesn’t know I love her, it would be called ‘pathetic’ by anyone who knew I loved a girl who lived so far away, but she’s all I can really think about, she’s the only one who really relates to me. I really do like her, and it’s kind of pushing me into the stages where I just sit depressed, maybe cry a little to myself. I know I might get to see her for a day sometime soon, which would make me amazingly happy, but then I won’t see her for a very long time after that.. So anyway, if you’ve lasted through my sorrow story, here’s the question: Do I tell her how I feel? Do I move on? Do I wait on her until I can openly go see her myself. Just, in a way, give me your thoughts. I’m sorry you had to read all this crap, but I want some advice. Thanks in advance, speedy replies would be amazing right now.
I really do like her a lot. So of course, I’d prefer less of the comments like “I’m pathetic.” If I am doing something pathetic though, just say it more subtle please.
You sound like a lonely guy who is thrilled to have some one to talk to and share with, and yes, that feels good. No you don’t go confessing your feelings I think until you have experienced a lot more with her, because its easy to get carried away by your own feelings and instill a false hope in yourself.