How should I handle this ‘friends with benefits’ situation ?Report
My male ‘friend with benefits’ is now ignoring me, because his girlfriend almost found out about us. I want to be friends with him again, but how do I get the courage to speak to him? When I’m in school I hate him, but when I’m home he’s all I think about. How do I get over the fact that I think or know he’s using me and I’m just letting it happen to me? Why can’t I speak up? I don’t want to be this girl any more. What should I do?
It sounds as though he might be doing you a favor by ignoring you. Make the choice to stop being that girl and ignore him right back. It might be rough at first but every day it will get easier and in the end you will have your self-respect and a shot at a new and healthy relationship.